Lately I have been just terrible at updating my blog and working on some of my web projects. You get so many things going that you just don’t have time for the REALLY important stuff. Blogging is nowhere near the top of my list as REALLY important by the way.
If you are busy like me, you have to prioritize the things that really matter, the things you value most. So how do you go about doing this?
For me it comes down to a simple series of goals based on what’s going on in my life today. I am really trying to live in today.
The first thing is me and God. That’s a given. Spend time with the head of the universe. His appointment book is always open to you. Spend time with the King when your mind is fresh and you can think clearly. I am not talking about the prayer list of everyone’s issues (or all the church issues) I am talking about personal talk, family stuff, getting your head screwed on right for the day.
Next comes family. What does my family need from me today. What can I give to them. What do I need to pay attention to? Anyone sad, need to talk, need a hug, need to dream, need to laugh?
Of course this also is placed in the context of what else controls my time. Work…but…really important point coming next…if all your quality time is taken up by your job and you do not have time for the above two things, you are NOT honoring God. So, in all reality you may need a career change. Be smart though, it’s not a good economy to just up and quit so if you need a change find the new job before you hand in your resignation.
Ministry to others is part of the job. Yes, it’s part of who we are as Christians but again if you aren’t getting 1 (you and God) and 2 (you and family) you do not have your values set right.
The key is to live in today. Set your time and schedule based on your top priorities and then be open to God for ministry to others as a part of life not an event. Yes…I Know…sometimes we need to schedule ministry events but serving others in the context of life is usually way more effective to actually helping people.
Live in today. Know what your values and priorities are, step up and do it! Enjoy!
